When a man from the marriage
Facing the betrayal, a thousand men will have a different woman.
The encounter in TV WenLi excited the forum. This tolerance, or face eternity evildoers? Forum posts seemed to form the two camps --
Lady, 33, tolerance for staff: my marriage
To tell you the truth, I also have the same situation faced WenLi. In 2007, because the unit, husband and other benefits of partnership opened a cafe. The woman is a divorce partner, older than her husband big five years, their shop, business partnership is thriving. The business of time at home with less, only in the morning hours at home, and a lot of time is in bed. One day, I have to say with him.
Such a few months later, I found a symptom - whenever I go to their shop, a few do waiters girl turned away, also don't know what in private. I saw her husband is always very embarrassed, said in a few words will push me away. Woman: let me see the intuition of the mystery behind these abnormal phenomenon. Later, washing the dishes in the aunt said: my husband has a very good relationship with female partners, uninformed customers as they are husband and wife. And her husband and the woman on the call also uncelar about, readily accepted.
Undoubtedly, the attack is huge. I couldn't believe that her husband would betray me.
I like this, to WenLi and carefully and the marriage filled with love, I would not put yourself in the marriage guillotined. I want a few times, have the determination and husband. This pick But I also refused to keep them such a relationship.
The chance came at last. Husband peacetime always say, tired, then I lost some found a chance, with husband go to a hospital checking the body. Doctors say the working intensity cafe is too big, too tired to her husband, who pay attention to rest. This is a impressive-looking reason -- I persuade her husband don't do it. For him and female boss between a word, I didn't mention. Also don't know is the doctor warned, or my tolerance lets his benevolence, finally, the husband listenned to my words, and the rift between us this bridge.
Then, just as a factory for the engineering design personnel that her husband. In my encouragement, he finally heartbeat. Quietly left the restaurant, to the key enterprise applied, and pass the examination, became the engineering designers factory.
An astounding should make a scene of marriage it is my farce invisible. For marriage, we want to tolerance attitude, maybe you can save you a patient, heal your hard-earned marriage between husband and this is not so distant feelings.
ZhangXiao, 35, teacher: pretend not confuse deterrent
I don't quite agree with the lady. Sometimes pretended to peace to extinguish confused by some would have family conflicts triggered, but when many men as a child, he is not the player really make you sick cats. Don't you pointed his problem he thinks you really don't know or weak, will be more open.
One day, when I pack study found in the drawer, there're some pictures of her husband. There are several young girls and a GouJianDaBei group photo. Obviously, the relationship between them is not only the intimate colleague, they told me everything. Action After I saw the mood very depressed, want to ask a fall in his face, calm down or want to pretend not know well. Because the girl now is always RenLaiFeng, if they really have what, my husband wouldn't be so the photos on not locked drawer. I spent the afternoon time belongs to let oneself mood, then cook, as usual, as usual.
Unexpectedly, later on computers I happened to see his QQ chat logs: he and a girl in discourse has been flirting.
I think the man can't indulge the rampant. That day he came home from work, I took a photo after fell before him, and told him to loudly with his age and identity.
Because I always attitude, so the relatively mild shock his attitude. He repeatedly apology, repentance. And with that girl is cut off.
For man is seen playing dumb without any threat, appropriate or rested. Sometimes, the marriage is to maintain the need quarreling loudly.
QiaoYan, 32, company staff: my tolerance and make him more and more
I also don't approve of tolerance and strategy. In 2007, this time of my husband suddenly have a crush on Internet, began to stay overnight in chat rooms. At first, I didn't care, because I have experienced this stage.
However, the husband to chat seem increasingly enthusiasm, originally a weekend, he will accompany me to go to the supermarket, but CaiChang, now, just sit in front of the computer, he will even forget to eat lunch.
A few times and not ridicule. So I always on the husband became obsessed with a man in the network. What is a temptation to him? I want to see him, if not more chats, believes he will adjust yourself, then pretend it like a bear.
Two months later, I suddenly discovered her husband not always sit in front of the computer. I am just glad I am, but found her husband became a man of few words. One night, he cried out in my dream was a girl's name. I trembled to check their chat logs, found that they had left a telephone number, also have the address, phone meet telephone records of almost all the girls. And
I unconsciously things should have reached this step? I sit in the study was midnight. I think, because my steps, led to indulge in this situation, if I today come a little earlier, give him a little pressure, it wouldn't be so serious - this is tolerant of consequence!
Links emotions: a man ", held the key moment derailed "
Although man is flower, but as long as control well, not so easy to succeed. Especially in the following several men easily, as long as the key moment derailed hold, can prompt completes preventive measures.
A woman is pregnant. Because of this period, so some ZiGuBuXia women tend to play the husband of not easy to behave restlessness, quietly to other * for comfort. Therefore, during be pregnant, women trying to refrain from their emotions, try to keep their attractive, especially to good use of expectant mother and dad this role to enhance must both feelings.
2 after the separation. If it is due to reasons such as work, registered permanent residence, but living in close contact is indispensable. Modern means of contact is varied, love letter, email, telephone, ICQ etc can all apply integratedly, try to knit up emotional propagandisted energetically. Of course, the festival or some special days, best can arrange time together. As for the separation and human conflict, should hold to solve the problem of coolness, and should not be attitude, because the anger blindly anger can let people crazy. And this separation can be set, also should OuYiWeiZhi for a short time. Once the separation become habit, so break easily become reality, Three is changed, such as work, work as husband thwarted. One is to seek work in the protection and happy conductsoneself in society, once the dilemma facing unemployment, frustrated, unavoidably will mood fluctuation. If this is not strong concern and support Mrs, it is easy to make and emotional derailed woman surelycannot carelessness,
Four is changed, such as position, the husband made a fortune. So-called warm thoughts, it is self-evident that lust. Her husband's progress, but happy woman, oneself also have stress, and the pressure into motive force, to continuously seek progress. Don't hold FuGuiQiRong old tune, because this can make your progress. Once the husband feel you miss, can run, when you alone crying.
5 is the family misfortune occurred. With such a case, the couple originally conjugal love has, 3-year-old daughter didn't die suddenly because of illness. Great sorrow, Mrs. Take good care of all blame her daughter without that her husband was tortured to escape until had an affair, their homes. So, when the similar occurs, gentle, positive, only a mentality to face misfortune. This is for the emotional woman, especially noticeable,
There are contradictions between six and the family's home, get her husband. For the husband is the old woman daughter-in-law not quite a difficult problem. When he couldn't handle, had fled alone.
As women grasp of marriage is the key, want to hold the key can save marriage. Protect happy family.
The handwriting
The woman's character is different. Facing the husband's affair will make different response. Somebody wants to depend on his presidency, save the fragmentation of the family, the court, to cast in tatters of early marriage. What kind of choice is? Maybe some experience for reference in marriage "grey zone" wives will help. In real life, seemingly close sometimes the couple to have little emotional turmoil fragile. When faced with these emotional turmoil when heat or cold treatment should be needed for their marriage women. Calm
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