My husband was found by regret
Her husband has left for two days, and didn't go to work, the phone off, SMS, friends are searched to find him, now I'm, don't know what to do, I hope you can help me.
I know, this is all my cause, my bad, for he wore green hat, hurt him, now I regret to die of heart have only hope that he can come back, I still want a full house.
I marry him for five years, more than 2 years children live in peace, happiness, I worked in a state-owned financial stability, work in boring, he is a foreign company's IT technical personnel, the child usual in grandpa's grandmother, when we meet at the weekend. Actually, the day has been thoroughly, is my heart gradually restless, feel bored, boring, want to find some fresh stimulus. Then, a man with online that man started net, but is a graduate of university, but not long talk humor humor and wit, and very thoughtful, we talked, of course, I didn't tell him that I had married, just tell me more than 8 years old, he is his big sister.
Online chat, we began to call the ambiguous words, more and more explicit, flirting with me feel so not too good, another side but enjoy the boy's hospitality and love, that are boys holding feel flattered from after marriage is seldom enjoy the time I was, with occasional era, feel however is online phone with a younger brother doesn't know a play, nothing.
The turning out in that year, said he wants to find work in Shanghai, I panicked, although have a little worried about what will happen, but also some expect. I help him to set a small hotel, still go to the station to meet him, now, I think to meet him really is fatal mistakes. He will mature than I could have imagined, although not tall, but very strong, the person also comely, we have a meal together, and sent him to the hotel, I will be back. On the way home, he sends messages to me: "you shall more beautiful than me, in imagination is more temperament. I have the feeling of the heart.
A week later, he asked me to meet him, and said, to find a job to celebrate ask me to have dinner. That night, drink wine, but not much, I know not the wine, reason, I very clear in he invited me to his new house when the lease sit, I still go out and give her husband phoned and told him to go back to my mom's night. So, all this happened happened, a moment, "was her husband found?" The idea flashed across an, also let me feel fear, anxiety, but that is what had caused by stimulating the carnival passion?
And so we associate with each week, see once or twice, to his house. He knew that I was married with children, but also didn't say anything, I think he's just like me, are too lonely, all want such a pure relationships. This time, I did not find her husband what different, he still work overtime, home to my words, with little children are very good, perhaps more than ever, silence, but I really didn't go to the outside marriage, the relationship between let me like roller coaster, exciting adventures, its.
The thing is suspended, two days before a night, her husband to my message: "you of the things I have found, I think for a long time, can't forgive you, we get a divorce." That night, till now, I haven't seen him.
I think my world, I just spilled over to the original life, have a husband and children, therefore, the family, let me do anything to me, what I will punish, now I want to save him, what should I do? I really do to obtain his pardon?
Fault fault fault:
One thing, it is not worth, intangible, ages, many people know it, all want to have it, leave no stone unturned never someone won. I said, now you want. No, no, no, not to say, I love you ", - regret medicine.
I always feel it, the worst is the one you want to pursue lucky psychology, stimulation, hold fluky psychology to do things, of course, to advance preparedness, the worst. Look before, very fast talker sawyer, mention a idiom that god, I remember now. This idiom means, the world has no white, how you get lost, also can get much, how, and how much will lose. What kind of any good thing: may the end, the prodigal son can turn?
It has been done, we analyse. Generally speaking, missing is a self escape behavior, will not last long. You can start by his parents don't try to hard, the best friend to inquire and under his whereabouts. Don't be too eager to find him, you need a little time. Of course, you must find him, and he sat down, he said, but do not know that the specific saw several times on the bed, several times, maybe things will have changed, talking, you should put emphasis on the plain on marriage life, let him have felt remorse.
Also, I suggest you also don't push him, tow, best first separated for a period of time, let the wound healing slowly. Time is long, maybe you sincere, caring and children can be prompted him to repent.
Because there's a very important point, he said, is back to the long that cannot forgive you. This shows that he is still struggling with pain, also experienced a balance, or won't separate again, and children. Finally this decision, there are only two ways, one is the result of deliberation, The second is forced to choose between the balance, too. I hope you are the latter.
Actually, came again to remove this sticky, no one believed. I was your husband, I also feel your repentance sincerity, only will think you are in crisis management. Now, you can only do is quiet waiting, don't wrecked. He can quietly, quietly one derailed found a divorce decision, also can be watched your changes, that you want to restore quietly.
Of course, if you do BaiBao, he was unwilling to compound, and you will understand all of his.
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