To eliminate the children mystique
Children of mystery
Children in 2 years, he began to take notice of the opposite sex, At age 3, about two thirds of children have a gender differences, In four years, almost all know oneself is a boy or a girl. Children of the opposite sex more interested in anatomical structure. When we find ourselves with the opposite sex have different place, always feel curious, but from his parents often unanswered. The name of parents body organs such as the eyes, ears, nose, goes to teach children, but a bag-player but not involved, it adds child's mystique. Occasionally there are some children to parents "sex", often by rebuke, make the child, have to drift. In fact, some children play each other, watching the genitals or genitals, peering void or is a kind of curiosity, and no sex colour, parents don't fussbudget completely.
In order to eliminate the mystique of children, parents should first so calm attitude. Teaching the children know everything, not consciously avoid organ, Some of the children "sex" problem, should truthfully, objective, and briefly answer: Some of the children "sex" game, don't interfere with easily. At the same time, should according to the natural reproduction of plants, animals, let the children accept preliminary knowledge of sex. Anyhow, through daily life, make the subtle children know gender difference is a natural phenomenon, don't let them to "sex" with more questions.
To eliminate the mystique, children are not to their sex knowledge propaganda, non-computer majors but in daily life, through the general words and actions to guide, make their psychological health development. Generally speaking, after 7 years old, began to appropriate positive sex education.
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