Beware of children have "intelligence anorexia."
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Nowadays, many parents agree in education investment spent a great price, but no child but abnormality.
Almost every parent has "expectations". In order to achieve this goal, the parents often do their best, and leave no stone unturned to children education environment and intellectual development condition, the child will give what, what the infant's intelligence development, toy, books that the more, the merrier. But, yes, sometimes confusing but backfire. A young father told me: children, friends have also badgered keyboards, but buy back after two or three days, he lost in the wall corner, Children room, toys, blocks, drawing, little train... say everything is just enough to open a book a room small. But, for these children's interest in nothing. Hence, the young father sigh: "alas, I spent so big price, but he is not a long." Appear afore-mentioned conditions for many reasons, and may be due to the interests of the child not stable, no long, may also because parents just for kids of the physical conditions, and ignored the child's guide. In addition, the young parents, children are analysis was intelligence "anorexia"?
The so-called "intelligence", refers to the children of infantile period due to instill in studying too much knowledge of the brain, the undesirable stimulation, thus make the child's interest abate. Knowledge
Children in the diet of parents are very attention, anorexia, however the child's "intelligence" is often not as anorexia parents.
Children to create a good environment is necessary intellectual development, however, everything has a degree, the only child psychology development characteristics of intellectual stimulation can be accepted for children, children can play an active role in the development of intelligence. The German doctors nate's thought, in the training of intellectual stimulation, make too much intellectual stimulation place in saturated state, also can make the child appears in the activities of "knowledge" anorexia. Knowledge is a lack of interest, curious to abate, thereby preventing the development of mental activity. Therefore, parents, children intellectual excitement to also want to notice the quantity, stimulating.
Demand is interest and motivation for the premise, the stimulation can make the demand. Therefore, in choosing books, toys, children's needs, should be more, but is not suitable for children, forming a stable interest. Give children story is good mental stimulation, but also have an art. German giant Goethe's mother in small Goethe tells a story, every time always in the most crucial place stop, let him go to imagine what the story is developing, and the next day you tell him down. This kind of imagination on the train, judgment, Goethe reasoning abilities, On the other hand also produced an urgent Goethe story about the development of psychological needs. But some parents in give children stories are lack of this art, no matter how children, a reaction, make the child to another story by keen to boring and even become children of hypnosis. Some parents are not all occasions, location, and to give children ", "or even intellectual excitement, still let children before meals must calculate arithmetic can eat. Imagine, children look attractive meals, because the aroma is set to eat and food, he will also have the interest calculated? This site, not mh, from the child needs to "exciting", the child intelligence is more harm than good.
Experts point out that, when children intellectual excitement to moderate and timely must pay attention to the needs of the children, from training, exquisite manner and method, and avoid the child have mental anorexia. Expert analysis, children have no abnormality may have many reasons for children, parents created many physical conditions, but ignored the child's guidance, so that children have intelligence anorexia. Help children to create a good intelligence development environment is necessary, but all have a degree. In intelligence training, to stimulate caused too passive state of saturated concentration, and will make the children appeared. Knowledge of infantile activity Expert proposal, the parents give children the stimulation, should pay attention to stimulate the quantity and extent, make them in knowledge and learning to keep certain hungry feeling, it is beneficial to inspire children learning enthusiasm and interest. As parents in the story, the most important places, let your child to stop the follow-up story imagination, tell him down. On the one hand, to cultivate their imagination, judgment and reasoning ability, on the other hand also make the child to produce a pressing understand the psychological needs of follow-up story.
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